"WIFE
said, 'All my school friends, even my elder sisters;
all
are staying with their husband and children only in
their
own separately bought APARTMENT.
There
are less workload and responsibility in
a
nuclear family, there is fun,
independence
and ENTERTAINMENT.
Why
are you still
not
buying a
3-BHK
Flat of our OWN ?'
HUSBAND
said, 'A Home is always a sweet home,
whereas
in a multi-storeyed building,
almost
everyone is UNKNOWN.
Because
of such callous attitude towards the
elder
people of a joint family, the numbers of
old
age homes are on the RISE.
Even,
nowadays, you such married women
are
fond of sending children
to
crèche; what a SURPRISE !
I
still respect and
love
our parents, joint
family
culture and its SANCTITY.
You
such married women start ignoring her father-in-law,
mother-in-law
and brother-in-law as if they are not
anymore
a part of this joint family ENTITY.
To
pressurize the husband, the married woman
misbehaves
with all her 'in-laws',
such
is their AUDACITY.
Listen
to me carefully, it is
the
final decision, that I will
stay
in my own ancestral HOUSE.'
WIFE
said, 'Then, l cannot stay here with you anymore,
better,
you stay here with your family members
only,
but not anymore with your SPOUSE.
You
are not courageous enough to leave your
parents
and stay in a separate flat with your wife,
as
you have crooked your Spinal CORD.'
HUSBAND
said, 'Is it a sin or a cowardice act as a male
person
to stay with his parents after marriage ?
I
will surely ask this question to my LORD.
Instead
of getting insulted repeatedly by you, regarding
this
issue, I am giving you full freedom to take your
own
decision and please give some rest to your VOCAL-CORD.'
LAWYER:
'Sir, your wife has left your
house
with your child and also gave
a
warning to file a DIVORCE.
I
can understand the trouble, you are in, but, these
things
do happen in life, where mutual adjustments
in
a relationship remains a major issue, of COURSE.
To
pressurize you, either to move out of your ancestral
house
or to sign the divorce paper, if any false case
get
registered against you, by your WIFE;
then,
please don't even hesitate for a moment to
sign
the divorce paper, to remain in peace, to start a
new
innings, new journey and to enjoy the LIFE.
In
this modern era, the married women generally
do
not love and respect the elder 'in-laws'
as
well as joint family culture and its SANCTITY.
We
may have advanced a lot in Science and
Technology;
but the Social Happiness is decreasing
and
that's the brutal REALITY."- Arindam Sain
